TOP THREE (3) TIPS FOR A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP

Relationship as far I am concerned is a kind of
similarity connecting persons or things together. In this
life, you can have relationship with anybody or anything.
The best relationship you can ever have is relationship
with your family members, lover (wife or husband) and
friends. Friends are helpers or sympathizers with whom
you have mutual affection with.
For me, I believe
nothing can never be better without you have been
faced with some challenges. For a relationship to be
strong and better, there are some moments in that
relationship of yours with other that you have fought,
misunderstood your partner or made a number of
mistakes.
I have passed through this before, as a student in
secondary school you fought your mates, in your
environment at home you fought many neighbours and
so on. However, as you are growing and moving
forward there is a need to realize on how to build a
great and better relationships with people.
With my experience, I have learnt three important things
or tips that I've helped me to have a great and better
relationship with other people.
=> APPRECIATE PEOPLE: Appreciating your friends,
family members or your lover is very very important.
Never take for granted what a partner or friend do for
you, doing this discourage them. Always appreciate their
good gesture towards you. A mere "Thank you" is
enough to appreciate what they have done for you and
be specific on what you are appreciating them for. You
can also present them an affordable gift which makes
them feel appreciated. I have done this and it is a tool I
do use to make my relationship with people in the
business world, friends, family members and other ways
a better one.
=> MAKE PEOPLE FEEL SPECIAL: Appreciating people is
very important but making them feel special is another
great way to make your relationship better. Sincerely, as
a human being we all want to feel special. We all adore
those whom treat us in a special way. If someone treats
you in a special way, I am sure you will reciprocate with
a special treatment too. Do care more about them, ask
them about their lives, their days, their current situation,
their interests, listen to them attentively, be very
supportive to them and other special treatment.
=> DO NOT CRITICIZE: Pointing out of faults of people
around you more often makes them feel discouraged or
create a gap between you and them. As a matter of
fact, you ought to correct your people but not with
criticism. To correct people around you, kindly tell them
their weaknesses and what are the ways to be adopted
to adjust their behaviour. Criticism is very hard for
people to receive because it seems like a punch on their
face. Therefore, people surely prefer to get motivated by
praise than criticism. Use the praising method over
criticism method to correct your people for a better
relationship.
Moreover, I have taken these three (3) things as a tip to
foster my relationship with others. My relationship has
grown and have enjoyed a greater peace and success
having built a great relationship with these tips over the
years.
I hope you find these three (3) tips helpful or have you
applied these tips before? Let me know how they have
worked for you.